While attention to detail is important, obsessing over every single word can be counterproductive. Here's why:

• It shifts focus away from the bigger picture and the story you're telling
• It can stifle your authentic voice
• It may prevent you from actually finishing your essay
• It often leads to overthinking and second-guessing your instincts

Remember, personal essays are very different from academic writing. Your college essay should sound like you're telling your story to an admissions officer, not like you're writing a research paper. This means that the grammar rules are also different. In creative personal essay writing, it's okay to bend some traditional grammar rules to capture your authentic voice. You might use contractions, start sentences with "And" or "But," or write in a more conversational tone. If a sentence doesn't sound like something you'd actually say, it might be time to rework it to better reflect your natural voice. The goal is to sound like yourself, not like a textbook.

Our coaches often remind students that it's not about "which way [admissions officers] will think is better," but rather "which way is most true to you." Authenticity and genuine self-expression are far more valuable to admissions officers than flawless prose.

To help our students move past perfectionism and assess their essays effectively, we encourage them to review their essay drafts based on these key elements:

1. Are you the main character in your essay? Including too many others in your essay can shift the focus off of you. Make sure the focus of the essay is on you, your experiences, and your reflection.
2. Does the essay demonstrate personal growth?
3. Does it reveal something not evident in other parts of your application?
4. Does it communicate positive qualities or values you want to highlight - Does it give admissions officers insight into who you are and what you'll bring to their campus community?
5. Does this essay sound like you? 
6. Is the essay easy to follow? Admissions readers have only a few minutes to read your essay, so it’s important that it is easy to read and doesn’t require a reader to stop and backtrack to follow the narrative.
7. Does the essay Include future movement: how will this experience or these experiences inform who you hope to be in college?

If your essay meets these criteria, you're likely on the right track, even if every word isn't "perfect."

It's also crucial to remember that no essay will ever be truly perfect. At some point, you have to call it done. Perfectionism can be paralyzing, preventing you from submitting your best work because you're constantly chasing an unattainable ideal. Instead of aiming for perfection, strive for authenticity and impact. 

By focusing on these aspects rather than obsessing over individual words, you're more likely to produce an essay that truly resonates with admissions officers. Remember, they're looking to get to know you through your writing, not to judge your ability to craft a flawless sentence.

So, take a deep breath, trust your voice, and don't let perfectionism hold you back. Your unique story and authentic self-expression are far more valuable than textbook-perfect prose. That's what will make your essay stand out in the admissions process.

One last note: by all means, you should proofread your essay and have another trusted adult proofread it as well! But don’t panic if somehow everyone who reviews your essay misses a typo and the essay is submitted. Admissions officers understand that you are human and this is a high-stakes process. Rest assured, a typo is not going to derail your application.

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If you're feeling overwhelmed by the college essay writing process or want to ensure that your essays and resume stand out, College MatchPoint is here to help. Our experienced essay coaches and resume experts work one-on-one with students to help them craft compelling, authentic narratives that showcase their unique strengths and experiences.

Our essay and resume program offers personalized guidance and support throughout the entire process, from brainstorming to final edits. We understand that every student's journey is different, and we tailor our approach to meet your individual needs and goals.

If you're interested in learning more about how College MatchPoint can help your student create essays and a resume that truly shine, we invite you schedule a  complimentary consultation and tell us about your student.